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Lynn Marie Swayze, CHt's avatar

AGREED: "Alternate methods, along with supports that may be nonspiritual in nature, are urgently needed. The young man I mentioned had some early breakthroughs but then encountered intrusive thoughts, perceived failure, and desperation."

The trained hypnotherapist in me cringes when I see that so many push positive thinking without addressing the underlying limiting beliefs, fears, and "traumas" inherent in the process of being human. (All those things Lester Levinson advises us to "release".) To ignore these is a shortcoming of New Thought, as well as traditional talk-based psychotherapy and the medical profession. (Take a look at the work of Dr. John Sarno and how he helped people with chronic "psychogenic" pain.) I was taught by my mentor (Joe Tabbanella, a really good hypnotherapist and teacher) that visualizing a positive end result OFTEN results in bringing up the stuff we need to deal with in our timeline. It's expected, if you understand how the mind works.

I do believe -- based on lived, personal and professional experience -- that many of these can be alleviated through therapeutic help such as hypnotherapy. But absent said help, ridding them through mere positive thinking, as this man attempted to, is like trekking through quicksand and ignoring the rope that's right above you. Sure, you can try it, but you might sink and there are definitely faster and safer paths across.

As with all things, it's difficult to convey the nuances between what positivity thinking is often perceived to be, and how it works best in practice with real, complicated human lives.

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Erich Barto's avatar

Just finished Daydream Believer - I really got a lot of value out of it , thank you for that.

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